FAQ –  Commonly Asked Questions

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Adult / Intimate Accessories

• Adult toys & intimate pleasure products

• Vibrators, dildos, couples toys

• Accessories like lingerie accessories, stockings

Most lingerie is suitable for beginners because:

• It’s primarily about style and comfort, not skill or experience.

• You can choose from soft fabrics, simple designs, easy fits.

• Stretchy materials and adjustable straps make trying new styles easier.

Beginner-friendly tips:

• Start with soft, comfortable sets rather than very structured corsets.

• Look for adjustable sizing and reviews mentioning comfort.

• There are many toys designed with beginners in mind. These tend to be:

  ✅ Smaller & Simpler

  • Compact size

  • Straightforward use

  • No intimidating features

  ✅ Lower Intensity

  • Gentle vibration

  • Easy to control speeds and patterns

  ✅ Easy to Clean & Maintain

  • Smooth surfaces

  • Waterproof or splashproof options for easier cleaning

  Good starter examples often include:

  • Small vibrators with 1–3 speeds

  • Bullet vibrators

  • Silicone toys with smooth shapes

  • Toys with clear instructions

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  🛠️ How to Choose Beginner-Friendly Products

  Here are a few tips when browsing:

  1. Read product descriptions for words like “beginner,” “gentle,” “easy to use.”

  2. Check materials: body-safe silicone is widely recommended.

  3. Look at size and controls: smaller size + simple buttons = easier for first time.

  4. Check reviews: other beginners’ experiences are often helpful.

📏 Step 1: Take Your Measurements

Use a soft measuring tape and measure over bare skin or thin clothing.

For lingerie (bras, sets, bodysuits):

• Bust – Measure around the fullest part of your chest

• Underbust – Measure just under your bust (important for bras)

• Waist – Measure the narrowest part of your waist

• Hips – Measure the fullest part of your hips

👉 Tip: Keep the tape snug but not tight.

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👙 Step 2: Understand Size Charts

• Always check the store’s size chart — sizes vary by brand

• Don’t assume your usual clothing size will match lingerie sizing

• If you’re between sizes, choose:

  • Smaller size for a snug/structured fit

  • Larger size for comfort and flexibility

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🧵 Step 3: Consider Fabric & Style

Different materials fit differently:

• Stretchy fabrics (lace, mesh, elastane): more forgiving

• Non-stretch fabrics (satin, corsets): need precise sizing

• Adjustable straps/hooks: great for beginners

• Bodysuits & teddies: check both torso length and hip size

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🩲 Step 4: Panties & Bottoms

• Base sizing on hip measurement

• If you prefer comfort, size up

• Thongs and strappy styles usually fit tighter than briefs

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⭐ Helpful Tips

✔ Measure yourself every 6–12 months (bodies change)
✔ Read customer reviews for fit feedback
✔ When in doubt, choose adjustable styles
✔ Don’t size down hoping it will “stretch later”

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✅ Quick Summary

• Measure bust, underbust, waist, and hips

• Use the brand’s size chart

• Consider fabric stretch and adjustability

• When unsure, comfort > tight fit

Yes — sex toys are generally safe to use when they’re well-made, used correctly, and cared for properly. Here’s a clear, beginner-friendly guide to staying safe and comfortable.

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🛡️ What Makes a Sex Toy Safe?

✅ Body-Safe Materials

Look for toys made from:

• Medical-grade silicone (top choice)

• ABS plastic

• Stainless steel

• Glass (tempered/borosilicate)

Avoid toys that smell strongly of chemicals or feel sticky/oily — these may contain unsafe materials.

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🧼 Proper Cleaning

• Wash before and after every use

• Use warm water + mild soap or a toy cleaner

• Let it fully dry before storing

👉 If a toy isn’t waterproof, clean carefully around controls.

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💧 Use the Right Lubricant

• Water-based lube works with all toys (safest option)

• Avoid silicone lube with silicone toys unless the manufacturer says it’s OK

Lubrication reduces friction and helps prevent irritation.

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🧠 Beginner Safety Tips

• Start with gentle settings and work your way up

• Don’t rush — comfort first

• Stop if you feel pain, numbness, or discomfort

• Follow the manufacturer’s instructions

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🔋 Electrical & Charging Safety

• Use the original charger

• Don’t use damaged cords

• Let rechargeable toys fully dry before charging

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⚠️ Extra Tips for Anal Toys (if applicable)

• Only use toys with a flared base

• Use plenty of lube

• Never force insertion

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✅ Quick Summary

✔ Sex toys are safe when made from body-safe materials
✔ Clean them regularly
✔ Use proper lubrication
✔ Start slow, especially if you’re new
✔ Listen to your body

• 🧼 How to Clean Sex Toys (Basic Rules)

  

  

  

  ✅ Before & After Every Use

  Always clean toys before first use and after each use.

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  🧴 Cleaning by Toy Type

  🔹 Waterproof Toys

  1. Rinse with warm water

  2. Use mild, unscented soap or toy cleaner

  3. Gently scrub with your hands

  4. Rinse thoroughly

  5. Air-dry or pat dry with a clean towel

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  🔹 Non-Waterproof / Battery Toys

  1. Dampen a cloth with warm, soapy water

  2. Wipe the toy carefully (avoid battery ports & charging points)

  3. Wipe again with a clean damp cloth

  4. Dry completely before storing

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  🔹 Silicone, Glass, Stainless Steel (No Electronics)

  • Wash with warm water + mild soap

  • Some silicone/glass/steel toys may be boilable (check instructions)

    • Boil for 3–5 minutes only if manufacturer allows

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  🧴 What to Use (and Avoid)

  ✔ Safe to Use

  • Mild, fragrance-free soap

  • Sex toy cleaner

  • Warm water

  ❌ Avoid

  • Harsh detergents

  • Alcohol or bleach

  • Antibacterial hand soap (can irritate skin)

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  🌬️ Drying & Storage

  • Let toys fully dry before storing

  • Store in a clean, dry pouch or box

  • Keep toys separate (materials can react if touching)

  • Avoid direct sunlight and heat

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  🔋 Battery & Charging Care

  • Remove batteries if storing long-term

  • Only use the original charger

  • Never charge a toy while wet

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  ⚠️ Extra Hygiene Tips

  • Use condoms on toys if sharing or switching between areas

  • Clean immediately after use with lubricants

  • Replace toys if the surface cracks, peels, or smells odd

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  ✅ Quick Care Checklist

  ✔ Clean before & after use
  ✔ Use mild soap or toy cleaner
  ✔ Dry completely
  ✔ Store separately
  ✔ Follow manufacturer instructions

Yes — many lingerie and intimate products (including toys and wear) are designed to be inclusive and suitable for all genders and a wide range of body types. Here’s how to tell and choose items that feel good for you:

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👗 1. Inclusive Sizing & Fit

• Look for brands that offer extended size ranges (e.g., XS–5XL, plus sizes, custom fits).

• Adjustable styles (straps, ties, laces) are great because they adapt to different shapes.

• Some pieces are marketed as gender-neutral or unisex.

Tip: Size charts vary by brand — always measure yourself (bust, waist, hips) and compare with the chart before ordering.

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❤️ 2. Comfortable Materials

• Stretchy fabrics (like elastane blends) adapt more easily to different body types.

• Soft, breathable materials are better for sensitive skin and all-day comfort.

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🧍 3. Variety of Cuts & Styles

Different styles flatter different bodies:

• High-waist cuts for varied silhouettes

• Bodysuits with flexible sizing

• Bras/bralettes without underwire for comfort

• Wraps, kimonos, and robes that fit many shapes

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🍒 4. Adult Toys for Everyone

Many adult toys are gender-inclusive, meaning they’re marketed for sensations rather than specific anatomy. When choosing:

• Pick based on desired sensation (external, internal, G-spot, prostate, couples, etc.)

• Start with beginner-friendly sizes and intensities

• See whether the toy’s shape/size matches your comfort and anatomy goals

No toy is exclusively for one gender — it’s about what feels good for you.

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🏳️‍🌈 5. Gender-Inclusive Options

• Many brands explicitly offer gender-neutral lingerie and toys

• Search for terms like: universal, gender-inclusive, all body types, adaptive, stretch

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📌 Quick Checklist

✔ Check size charts before buying
✔ Prefer adjustable and stretchy pieces
✔ Read reviews from people with similar body types
✔ Choose toys based on function & comfort, not gender labels

When we processes your payment so that the charge on your bank or card statement shows a neutral or unrelated business name, it helps keep your purchase private and confidential. 

👍 What This Means for You

✔ Your statement won’t show the store name or product details
✔ It will show a generic business name or descriptor
✔ This helps keep your purchases private from others who might see your bank statement

🧾 Example of Discreet Billing

Instead of something explicit like:

LINGERIEANDTOYS.SHOP

Your card statement might show something neutral like:

LTD RETAILER CO or CITY NAME MARKET

(Actual statement wording varies by payment processor and merchant.)

🛡️ Extra Privacy Considerations

• Plain packaging when items are delivered

• Secure checkout (HTTPS)

• Clear privacy policy about how your data is handled

Absolutely — clearly stating whether a product is USB-rechargeable or battery-operated (and how to use it) is a best practice for adult products like sex toys, and most reputable retailers do exactly that.

Here’s what you can expect in well-written product details:

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🔋 Power Type

Every product should specify:

• 🔌 USB-Rechargeable
  – Comes with a charging cable (often magnetic or USB-C)
  – Includes estimated charging time
  – Battery life per charge

• 🔋 Battery-Operated
  – What battery size it takes (e.g., AA, AAA)
  – How many batteries are included (if any)
  – Tips on inserting/removing safely

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📘 Usage Instructions

Good product listings usually include:
✅ How to turn the toy on/off
✅ How to switch between speeds or patterns
✅ Recommended lubes (e.g., water-based only)
✅ Cleaning instructions
✅ Safety tips

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📏 Example of What You Might See

Product Title: Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Power: USB-C Rechargeable (charging cable included)
Charging Time: ~2 hours
Run Time: Up to 90 minutes
Features: 10 vibration modes
Materials: Body-safe silicone
Usage: Waterproof, easy-press control button
Care: Wash before/after with mild soap

Or, for battery toys:

Product Title: Classic Bullet Vibrator
Power: Battery-operated (2× AAA batteries — included)
How to Use: Twist base to open, insert batteries, tighten
Features: 3 speeds
Care: Remove batteries before cleaning

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🧠 Why This Matters

This helps you:

• Choose the right toy for your preferences

• Understand how to operate it safely

• Know what accessories you may need (cables or batteries)